SISSY FOR MY WIFE: (Crossdressing, Feminization, First Time)

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And when I did, it was an enormous relief, like a ton of bricks was lifted from me — Imagine the rush of pleasant chemicals that released in my brain. I am going to be as honest and as gentle as I can in this little (well, it’s not little at all) list as I can be. In fact, you may wish to create an account and poke around the forums if you wanted to get a little more insight into what this side of us may be about. I slide the satiny corset on and then slid the silky nylons up to my thighs and then proceeded to hook up the garters to the nylons.

I've recently discovered she has a profile on a crossdressing site in which she says she wants to dress as a man fulltime and is much into feminine men. I crossdressed on and off for quite some time and after college, when I started working, I completely stopped to crossdress. Even if it’s been a decade since he last slipped on a pair of panties and he never does so ever again, he is (in my opinion), and will always be, a crossdresser. Ultimately, while she had initially embraced and encouraged it in me as just a cool wee kink, it grew to the point she loathed and couldn’t accept it, especially when I began to share the secretive hell that I’d been living in since childhood and openly begin to identify as transgender. He may wear a nightgown tonight, but it doesn’t necessarily mean he will put on a skirt when he wakes up tomorrow.I got caught at a young age (about 9) trying on my mom’s makeup and she threatened to parade me up and down the neighborhood in it if I ever did it again. Moreover, because it was hidden and something I should have allowed to be out in the open, I sought every way, every private moment I could to sneak doing it. Feeling hard to come to terms with this, and feel betrayed to be intimate with him now as feel it is not me he is with but his feminine person. I want to briefly address different ‘types’ of male crossdressing and then I’ll scatter a bit of the lived experience I have that qualifies me to discuss this.

You may feel embarrassed that your big, tough husband who likes to hunt and fish also likes to wear panties. Crossdressers tend to have a different relationship and perspective on clothes than what many cis women have. I've seen many stories on people coming out, and the happiness, joy and acceptance that came with it. I think that he’s made ENORMOUS strides and is so much more confident than he was before he came out in the open to everyone, but deep down he has a very sensitive heart and soul, and I know that that kind of hurtful crap would cut deep, and he’d hold onto it for awhile.I now fully understand this is not a phase my wife is going through but is something that she wants and needs. You also both need a clear understanding of what is and is not acceptable to both of you to sustain a marriage and what constitutes a deal breaker. If this is indeed a fetish for him (and it isn’t always) then please know that when someone is aroused by something it’s because… well, that is simply how they are wired. Marriage is nothing if not a contractual agreement and constant renegotiation in the face of change.

To me, even though I’ve a Mexican background, it would be like saying I am a Muxe when my family isn’t from Oaxaca and I’ve married a woman.I identify as trans, which is a broad and often unspecific umbrella term, your husband may not, it is just a label I use to understand myself and my relationship to the world. Both letters are used with permission and have been edited for clarity and to protect their identity. I think all you need to feel comfortable accommodating and/or enjoying your partners fetish is a simple willingness to participate.

I learned to hide these feminine inclinations and behaviors early because it was quickly obvious to me that they would not be tolerated, leave alone accepted. I feel I am fairly self-aware and not oblivious to how who we are impacts our lives and the relationships that we have, particularly the relationships we have with our significant others. She had set her drinks after finishing the pasta, and she reached out, touching me on the arm, “Nope. It feels like she’s getting what she wants, and I have no choice but to give up because my needs are ‘perverted.I love her so much, that I wanted her to know about my crossdressing (this is still fairly new to me since I started dressing back last November).