Watching My Wife Cheat: She's Not Satisfied With Me

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She slept with him and I didn’t know how to react. She came home from her date with the guy all hot and bothered and fell into bed with me exhausted and ready to go to sleep. Either she really did just cheat on me or she’s a great actor. A small part of me was hoping for the latter but a big part of me feared the worst. I wanted to ask a ton of questions, but I wasn’t exactly sure if “Was he as good as me?” was appropriate. I mean, what if she said yes? For the past three years especially, since the time our kids have gotten older and gone off to college/gotten married and we've faced empty nest syndrome, I have had this overwhelming gnawing feeling ever present of whether I truly wanted to stay married to my husband for the rest of my life. We just celebrated our 25th anniversary last month, but I really don't feel that I am in love with him anymore. I have daydreamed of what it would be like to be with another man (since he was my first and only and I was a virgin when I met him)....and I do feel a little cheated in that department, as he has never been that great of a lover and he has always made fun of his own "small size." I wouldn't have really known any better all these years, but for his own insecurities about it, truly. Our sex life improved after sleeping with other people. We didn’t have a ton of other partners or even meet up with half of our matches, but our few rendezvous were fun and brought us closer. After all, is messing around with other people really that much different than fantasizing about other people during sex? We didn’t really see an issue.

Moving to the bed, she crossed her legs and smiled at me that same way she had when we first started dating. So, I think God may have had the last laugh here....the big letdown after the big expectation of grand things........and now I've been unfaithful to my husband after 25 years of marriage. But it still seems to me that it was almost a rite of passage that I felt I had to go through, so I'm not all that remorseful about it, if the truth be known.This isIra van den Heuvel’s response to the question, ‘Have you found your spouse with another man in bed and what was your reaction?’ on Quora. Your wife might be cheating on you if her clothes smell of an altogether different fragrance, which you probably have never smelled before. Wow am I glad that I installed that shower cam. I was watching everything play out in real time on Friday night. I couldn’t see anything during dinner, because I had forgotten to install cams in the kitchen and the little dining area. But I could hear. They were getting a little tipsy and obviously kissing a lot. Finally after dinner then landed on the couch and I observed from above as they started making out. I could hear very clearly now — the mic was the lastest directional tech, really nice. Anyway, all of the above has made me have a "grass is greener" syndrome about what life might be like if I weren't with him anymore and were free to find someone else with more in common with me, perhaps. This has made me susceptible in the past to Yahoo IM "friendships" with men who approach me on MySpace and such, if you look at my past posts from last year and such. As of the last couple of weeks, it has escalated....I discovered Craigslist and became Yahoo "friends" with a couple of married men looking for married women to be "pen pals or more...," telling myself the whole time I would just flirt with them on Yahoo and never actually meet up with them. We have just become chat buddies....although it has escalated to exchanging pictures and the men of course wanting to meet and rendezvous. I put them off.....because I'm married and, of course, it would be wrong. Then I looked toward the room in confusion, trying to understand how it was possible for the video to correlate with my pristine room. I never knew her to be a good cleaner, and surely there had to be some trace evidence of the bodies she had likely disposed of time and time again.

I have a lovely ladyfriend with whom I am more than happy. A decent job, a home, a family. Not proud, not ashamed. After pacing the kitchen for a few minutes trying to gather my thoughts i looked in the sink and immediately knew what i had to do. My eyes caught my handy dish glove and it was obvious what task had to be completed.Her lover’s screams were now the ones that filled the void of the room. Blood splattered on our clean sheets. Muscle and skin ripped apart like wrapping paper. Her fingers gnawing into his open chest cavity like claws as she ripped out his beating heart and then began to chew on it like a piece of jerky. They talked to each other about their sex lives, and joked about playing guitar naked and kooking naked for each other. One afternoon they were standing outside, after a lesson. One of my employees left, and he started asking her if they kan get naked together in the garage and have sex in the garage. At first she denied annything happened untill the guy's wife phoned me. What happened next according to my wife, is that out of frustration she said "If you want to get naked get naked here!". He then took out his penis and started mastrubating in front of her. She said she looked away, but I doubt it. He finished and she offered a tissue. The average person would have booted the pervert out on his ear in a heartbeat or called the police to have him removed and filed charges. They would have been offended. She had no respect for herself, the pervert, her home or her man in this situation. But no, she thought it somehow gratifying in getting this kind of attention. Gal has issues in my opinion and not worthy of trust. IMO.... I really need some help here. My wife has been taking guitar lessons at home. (not a problem as I run my business from there and there is always movement). I found out over the weekend after finding suspiciouse sms's and confronting my wife and the guy who she has lessons with that the following happened: Her wings spread wide and she lifted her meal from the bed, moving him to to floor right in front of the camera to finish him off. I don’t know how long she continued to eat. I couldn’t bear to watch any longer.

After my wife and I got married, I admittedly got too comfortable and stopped trying as much as I did when we were dating. When I turned her down for sex one night, she frustratingly claimed that she was going to find someone who’d show her attention when she wanted it and I told her to go for it. It ended up changing our relationship in some pretty big ways. I’m stunned by what appears to be your immense amount of maturity. If what you want is remorse and for the behavior to stop, and that’s what you’ve got, I can absolutely understand why you’d prefer to let the affair stay in the past. As the wronged party, you’re completely within your rights to never bring it up.The day after I was almost certain she was cheating on me, my wife showed up at my parents’ house for our youngest son’s first birthday party (I had arrived the day before). He was going to turn one in a few days and we figured we’d throw him a birthday party while everyone was in town for Easter. We hadn’t even had him a year, and she, I assumed, was already with somebody else. Party Time I guess things would be better if I could just be honest with him and tell him how I've truly been feeling for sooooo long now......but it would crush him. Without a word Claire crossed the room and looked down at the doll, playing with the strings like a cat might a ball of yarn. Then she crushed it slowly in her hand, it took less than a few seconds for her to reduce it to rubble.

It is, and was, against my nature to use violence in an offensive manner. At the time, I rationalised it as being self defence, an intruder in my home. But that’s bullshit. He didn’t take anything my wife did not give up willingly; I was simply responding to the turmoil of emotions and that awful pain of heartbreak clawing my chest apart. Still not okay. I wish none of that evening had happened, but most of all wish I hadn’t hit the guy. Studies show that, an estimated 30% to 60% people in America engage in infidelity and cheating at some point in their marriage.

Paranoid or Gut Feeling?

The emotional landmines would in all likelihood pertain to jealousy—I urge you to work through that, as it can be a real turn-off for those who aren’t jealous and want to have fun. Books like The Ethical Slut and The Jealousy Workbook might help. The cooler you are about this, the more likely you are to keep seeing this couple. That said, if you don’t feel cool, you don’t have to be cool—if it’s too much for you, say something. If they’re willing to hear you out and work with you to achieve a balance that satisfies everyone, they’re worth keeping around; if not, your situationship is worth reconsidering. I found myself at a loss for words. Then finally I went over toward her and smiled nervously, remembering the other cameras in the house. Remembering she didn’t know what all I had seen or if I had saved anything. Sounds stupid I know. What are the chances she would even leave the doll around to let me listen in on her? But then I know my wife. The bones pushed to the side and started to form sinew and stretch the skin to its limit. And I realized they were forming what appeared to be wings. Her lean form bent over toward the man that she had been seducing for the night and I watched in abject terror as her mouth widened to reveal rows of sharp teeth, more than even a shark might have. Then I heard a noise behind me, and I turned to see her standing there. She saw that I was looking at the footage and I am certain that if I could see my face it was likely paler than a ghost.