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Could it be she was lonly and then once she got the attention could not stop, she has said she did love the attention but once she slept with her Ex it all stopped and she focused on how to make us better as she realised what a mistake she had made. You say no one suspects you, but the guy is your boss. Does he treat you favourably? Does he spend more time with you than with others? It only takes one person to complain and a whole can of worms could be opened. Jessica believes that as we return to the office, there will be an ‘influx’ of work affairs by the end of 2021. So, after over a year of this you tell her she needs to find a new job. Her reaction is to tell you she "applied to a couple of jobs" with you having no way of verifying that. All while she still goes to her old job?

It’s most definitely me at this point. It’s on me to let go of the hurt, I think. It’s overdue. How can I talk with my wife about this though? It’s not fair to me that she cheated, but after 10-years of her proving her fidelity to me, maybe it’s not fair of me to re-hash this whole thing. Is it right to talk about it with her? Should I seek counseling alone? I’m with her for the long-haul, but I’m just wondering if I’ll be carrying this pain for the long-haul too? There’s got to be a way to exorcise these demons. Not looking for the easy way out either…I’ll work at it. Just want these painful episodes to cease and desist. Pat, It’s very difficult to blindly trust once you have been betrayed. Since your boyfriend has also had this experience I would imagine he knows the depth of pain caused by betrayal. I agree it’s important not to react impulsively since that usually makes it hard to have a rational conversation. I believe it’s important to be honest when things like this happen, i.e. to tell him what you saw in a calm way and ask about it. Otherwise the fear and anxiety sits inside and will come out another way. Take care, Lori She says there is nothing going on between them, that she's only trying to make a good impression and I'm being paranoid, she says she loves me and wouldn't be with me if she wanted someone else and I really want to believe her. This weekend they are supposed to go away for a convention and she'll be gone for 2 weeks. I've already told her that I feel uncomfortable about the trip and now she says I'm controlling and she seems determined to go whether I like it or not. Many years ago, i was in a relationship with a stunning gorgeous woman! We were living together, and she took it upon herself to announce to her parents and my parents. all our friends, etc, that we were now engaged and going to get married to each other! I was all for it, we got invitations printed and sent out, we began doing all the things necessary when planning a wedding. And then i went into the bedroom, my fiance started with every excuse in the book, and i stopped her and said, i don’t need to know, the marriage is off, i do not want to see or hear from you ever again, you can tell the guy that was here taking my place tonight that you are no longer my problem, now u are his! and i turned around and left the bedroom, went out onto the porch, and asked the Chinese woman if she would like to accompany me to an all night diner where i could eat something, and she said sure, so off her and i went to eat!She didn’t seem to think talking would help. He kept saying he has tried for 10 years to think about me differently but can’t . So there are times when there cannot be any reconciliation! In my case i just described, there was far too much damage to ever save the relationship with her and I! Ali, It would be very hard to trust someone who blames you for his affair. Affairs are never the “fault” of the person who is betrayed. I understand your desire to stay for the kids. Some of my clients stay for that reason. Others want their kids to see a nurturing and loving relationship and choose to leave in hopes of finding a healthier relationship. What hurts kids the most if you stay is chronic arguing and conflict. Staying or going is one of the hardest decisions you’ll ever make. You could always go to a relationship counselor to at least discuss your options. Take care, Lori My issue is I do not think she is been honest about the sex as they did not even use protection so I think it was alot more intense than she made out. And I think something physical happened with my cousin as when I raise she gets very defensive and when I talk to him just about the pics all he ever says is it was never physical I never touched her all the time. years have passed since I told him. I thought we were going ok…we stayed together and supported each other through tough times and are intimate. I tell him all the time how much I love him and he said he loves me too….although it bothers me he doesn’t put effort in to the relationship and never initiates. We still never talk about our feelings but I put it down to him beng a blokey bloke.

My wife and I spoke in the car (away from our daughter) for a few hours and she was quite cold about it. She said that she feels like we have grown apart, we are distant and it feels like we are room mates. She stated that she doesn’t think I’m emotionally intelligent enough. She blamed my playing of the computer to be the main reason. I tried to understand her point of view on everything she said and I definitely could see that it could feel the way it does. I pleaded for her to see a Therapist and she agreed, reluctantly. She stated she wanted to make it work for our daughter. I was happy with this as at least it’s something. I knew what I had to do. I sheepishly returned to my seat and proceeded to eat every bite of that disgusting, cold, chewy, bloody, raw steak.” My wife and I have been married for a long time (50 yrs). Two years into our marriage I caught her at her married boss’ apartment. At the time she said they were both lonely and only watched tv and talked. The boss’ wife was a flight attendant and was away a fair amount of the time. Based upon recent conversations and discovery of some old photographs, that were taken several years after the “apartment incident”, I am convinced she had a many year affair. One photograph showed them cheek to cheek and smiling broadly with him displaying “ two fingered bunny ears above her head”. She always deletes the call log, Whats up chats , massager massages etc when she talks in off hours.People can react differently when they’re having an affair,’ notes Hayley. ‘Some may try to “make it up’ to you with unexpected romantic gestures, others will become withdrawn, some may even accuse you of being unfaithful.’

My wife’s boss is a single lady in her fifties, so it was just the three of us. We chitchatted over drinks and salads and seemed to really be hitting it off. She laughed at my well-timed, perfectly-appropriate jokes and my wife seemed pleased.” I confronted my wife and she looked at me resignedly and admitted to it. She said she only did it because she knew how great the promotion would be for me, and that managing director was the decision maker. And that she would do anything for me, even die for me, and this was no different. You've stood by, you were inactive and allowed this to unfold. It's time for that to end, NOW. Demand she quit her job, inform HR at her place of employment if they have such a department, inform the Boss wife if he's married. Do not warn her in advance, just go and do it. I’m sure those snatched encounters at work are thrilling, but if someone does discover you in a compromising situation, one or both of you may even be accused of gross misconduct. Falling foul of workplace legislation, or leaving because things become too difficult, means you’ll end up saying goodbye to your job as well as your love interest. Boss/employee romances can be a minefield and need to be handled very carefully. My wife – who’s steak was a nice medium rare and was unaware of my predicament – turned, jaw dropped, and stared at me like I was an alien from another planet. This look then slowly morphed into more of a there-is-no-place-on-this-planet-you-can-ever-hide-from-me expression of demonic anger.

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I still kind of blame myself for the affair happening, but I know that it’s not true, and I am working on it. Now, my marriage is better than it was when we first got married. I’ve forgiven my husband, and we are going to try having a baby soon within the next year. Before this discovery I trusted my wife fully and I thought we were a model couple. I didn't recognize the signs that she was depressed, that she was cheating and I didn't recognize that I was depressed. I have beat myself up a bit about being so trusting but I have come to the conclusion that I did exactly what I was supposed to do. I trusted my wife as husbands are supposed to do. For the next few days, I was devastated and hurt but I knew I wanted it to work, not only for my daughter, but for everything we had built together over 10 years. I also knew the person she turned her into wasn’t the person she was.