The Little Bit Naughty Book of Wild Sex Positions

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Different sex positions can be a fun, low-risk way to spice up your sex life… connect better with your partner… and otherwise enjoy sex a whole lot more.

Don’t change right away, unless you’re purposely holding her right on the edge of orgasm and not letting her climax (you naughty man, you).

The Private Dancer

If one reads and follows the advice and visuals in “ 30 Sex Positions and Tips For Getting Wild, Rough, and Kinky,” your sex life may never be the same! Before you take on this position, know that it’s quite athletic, requiring a lot of action on both your parts — see how she’s holding up her body with her hands? Not as easy as it looks. But the payoff can be super-deep penetration and thrusting — very satisfying for both of you. Brenna Sparks: If you want to get good at sex, treat it like a science, not a primal instinct. Angle, depth, and speed are your units of measure. The strategies you adopt will also depend on things like the size of the penis involved, and how well you handle size. You can make adjustments to all of these factors with every position you try when you're experimenting with them. I'd say limit yourself to experimenting with one new position per session. You need time to try adjusting each position in different ways to figure out how these units of measure work within it. If you’ve never tried this beloved position before or if you’re looking to get more experimental, Doggy Style is the perfect place to start.

Make it hotter: Playing with this position in various locations can really level up your lovemaking. Try this against a bedroom wall or in the shower, Skyler suggests. She adds that doing this against a laundry machine could also be fun for the added vibrations. Looking for a summer-friendly sex moves or two? Sneak off to a private place and pull up your skirt for this simple move, where the receiving partner leans over a table or bed and the penetrating partner enters from behind. You don’t even have to take off your swimsuit top. A modified version of doggy style, teaspoon provides an equally good opportunity for deep penetration — but with a bit more connection because your bodies and faces will remain close. Kneel on the bed or ground and have your partner enter you from behind and touch and stimulate you from the front while you remain upright. Remember: Experimentation and discovery are important parts of a healthy sex life, says Donna Oriowo , PhD, a Maryland-based sex therapist. "Our bodies are constantly changing," Oriowo explains. "The things that we did when we were younger may not work for us in the same way as when we're older."

The Tilt-a-Whirl

This means our bodies' wants, desires, and abilities will evolve naturally over time. "And we want to make sure that we're able to take full advantage of that," Oriowo says. So, the next time you’re about to have sex, instead of resorting to your go-to moves, why not try something a little more adventurous? Joslyn Jane : 69ing. It can be really hot for a few minutes, but it’s not the easiest for many people to climax in. It's also difficult to concentrate on giving head when I am close to climaxing. But using pillows or having her lower her head down could help bend her body so that you’re entering from an angle she loves. Amazing sex doesn’t come from pretending to be amazing. It happens when you and your partner can communicate, and find ways moving your bodies together that create waves of pleasure.