Explicit Erotic Sex Stories (4 Books in 1): The best collection of stories to explore your sexual fantasies and apply them with your partner or lover!

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The 2016 study, which was published in the journal Sexual and Relationship Therapy, recorded the sexual functioning of 27 women over six weeks. Half read self-help books, and the other half read erotic fiction. The result? Both groups made equal, statistically significant gains when it came to: Long-term relationships require a commitment to investing in your sexual connection. You and your partner probably have some overlap in sexual fantasies and listening to sexual fantasy stories can serve as a catalyst for conversations about the kinky things you want to try. For example, if you fantasize about blindfolds and spanking, having your partner listen to a story incorporating those elements can help you work up the nerve to ask if they're interested in trying it out. 4. They give you ideas for role play If you're a kinky sex novice then bondage may sound like a bold start, but being tied up can involve anything from ropes and harnesses to simple silk scarves or even your dressing gown belt, so don't be afraid to experiment with a bit of light bondage - provided it's easy to escape. At first, it might not feel like much at all and the pleasure may be pretty mild compared to what you're used to while using more immediate erotic visual aids like porn. So what is the ‘compare, contrast, counterpoint’ between the two books? The most crucial difference between the two books is the normalisation of fantasy. While Friday was clearly making an unusual and unpopular stand in her era and her society, Dubberley speaks to a readership so converted that she is driven to add a reassuring caveat on why readers shouldn’t berate themselves if they do not fantasise!

Blair suggests that, while exploring sexual fantasies in your mind, try to distinguish between when you're having a reaction versus a judgment to a certain scenario. Judgments often come from values imposed on you by something or someone else, while visceral reactions can be an indication that your mind wants to explore it further — especially if it's something your never thought you'd be into. While everyone can benefit from using their imagination as a sexual aid, it's an especially potent practice for women and others who society has conditioned to feel ashamed about their sexuality. Some other sexual fantasies for women would involve role playing where there are a doctor and a patient, teacher, and a student, a boss, and employee, or her dream character from one of her romance novels. Oftentimes, they relate to fantasy, escapism or subverting otherwise 'negative' emotions. You might find that sex is really hot when you feel powerful, submissive, challenged, mindful, or playful," she said. "You may also find yourself aroused by feelings that you don’t naturally associate with pleasure, like jealousy, inadequacy, fear, and even humiliation can be exciting." If you want to make more of an event of it, why don’t you and your partner dress up in your gladrags for the occasion?

Fantasy then, fantasy now

Sexual fantasy can just as easily be about meeting your emotional needs as your sexual ones. ‘We fantasise about so much in our lives, our dream jobs, the house we want to live in, what we want our future to look like, what we want to have for lunch that day – it makes no sense that our sex lives and sexuality wouldn’t fit the same pattern,’ says Moyle. ❤️ Boredom Yes, it’s an unequivocal yes! Because thinking about stuff is not the same as doing it,” said Wise. As the famous saying goes, “It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you'd come home to eat.” Fantasizing about being dominated doesn't imply that you're weak or that your partner is superior to you, though. "Fantasies involving power play may speak to a desire to gain or relinquish control regarding our private lives, work lives, or role in society," says Darnell. "Power dynamics in an erotic context create such sensorial arousal." A major key in setting your mind up for erotic success is to ensure your environment allows your brain to feel fully relaxed, safe, and free from distraction.

But studies have shown that reading erotica makes you more likely to get between the sheets with your partner or pleasure yourself in the 24 hours after you read it. Plus, the first study we mentioned above suggests that erotica can significantly increase the overall sex drive and sexual pleasure of a woman reading it. Myth 3: Readers will want to act out their favorite far-out erotic stories Fantasy is effective at keeping us primed for arousal because our thoughts are private and not limited by our real-world situations. You can fantasize about your celebrity crush, the barista at the coffee shop on the corner, or getting tied up for the first time by your new neighbor. 2. Sexual fantasy stories provide an outlet for your desiresAt this point though, you might be wondering: Is it even OK to fantasize about other situations — or maybe even other people — while having sex with a partner? “It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you'd come home to eat.” For many people sexual fantasy offers a release. 'It's a way of stepping outside of our day-to-day lives and trying something different, or a little bit naughty, without all of the repercussions that might come with playing things out in real life,’ adds Oakes.