Handheld Mini Bullet Vibrator for Women, Quiet Yet Powerful, Personal Pleasure Waterproof Sex Toy with 10 Vibration Patterns - by Order Amour

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Satisfyer is infamous for its magical sex toys — this is the brand that taught one of our writers how to squirt, after all. The Pro Traveler is a travel-friendly toy that uses pressure waves to stimulate your clit and features a magnetic closure in its cap so it snaps together, making it look just like a phone case.

When it comes to lube, you have three main options: water-based, silicone-based, and oil-based. The biggest thing to keep in mind when pairing lube with toys is whether your lube is compatible with your toy, says Howard. With silicone toys, you want to avoid silicone-based lube, since that will erode the material. And if you’re using condoms on the toy (more on that later), stay away from oil-based lubes, since that can wear down the condoms and make them less effective. When in doubt, water-based lube is a solid choice. We-Vibe is known for its array of couple-friendly sex toys, and the Tango X is definitely one you can share or use alone. It's a rechargeable bullet with eight vibration speeds that can be used on any and all erogenous zones. This mini bullet vibrator is also waterproof for endless fun no matter where you are, including the shower.

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Climaxing at the same time is easier than ever when the receiving partner is wearing the Lelo Tiani 3. This wearable device acts as a clitoris and G-spot vibrator that can be worn during penetrative sex, sending vibrations up your penetrating partner's penis. If neither of you has a penis, you can also use this vibrator to make hand play more intense for the receiving partner — or pair it with an insertable toy.

Jess O'Reilly, PhD, a Toronto-based sexologist, says remote control vibrators are some of the most versatile sex toys on the market and can be used in endless ways to "facilitate playfulness" for the best sex ever, with or without a partner. "Not only does a remote control vibe allow you to weave eroticism throughout your day, but it often inspires you to flirt, tease, build anticipation and be more creative," she says. Deia's The Wearable has an innovative design that hugs your clit for more precise stimulation (and makes storage simple), but that's not the only reason why we're loving this wearable vibrator. It stimulates your G-spot and clit with 10 different vibration patterns, and it stays put during penetrative sex. As a bonus, the rechargeable remote can also be used as a bullet vibrator. Genius. verifyErrors }}{{ message }}{{ /verifyErrors }}{{ Condoms are also useful if you want to use a toy for both vaginal and anal play (which you can do as long as the toy is anal safe). To avoid moving bacteria from your anus to your vagina or urethra (and risking vaginal infections like bacterial vaginosis or urinary tract infections, as SELF previously reported), use a new condom every time you’re switching holes. 10. Always clean and store it properly. An important rule: No matter what, the general consensus among experts is that your toy should be phthalate-free, says Howard. Phthalates are a group of chemical plasticizers typically used to make plastics softer, so you usually spot them in jelly-like toys. Phthalates have come under fire for their potential to affect human health (the scientific jury is still out, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) but in the name of “better safe than sorry,” you can easily find sex toys that are phthalate-free. In fact, some types of phthalates are banned in children’s toys, according to the Consumer Product Safety Commission. 3. Read the instructions.The highest setting might be too intense for you,” says Howard. “Or it might be fine as long as you work your way up to it. Either way, it’s better to start low and build on your pleasure instead of jumping from zero to five out the gate.” Even if you’re not in the mood to whip out all the stops every time you want to use your vibrator, a little foreplay can go a long way. “Explore your body using the vibrator,” recommends Howard. “Try using it on the inner labia and outer labia and around the vaginal opening without actually inserting it—the whole area.” 5. Use lube, even if it’s just external. You might know from experience that even when you’re masturbating, you have to be in the mood, especially if you’re hoping to have an orgasm or two. Plus, it doesn’t hurt to loosen up and get some natural lubrication going. Like most sex toys, you can use many of these orgasmic, remote-powered gadgets on a variety of erogenous zones, even if they're designed for a specific part of the body, according to O'Reilly. "A clitoral panty vibe can be used against the vulva, along the perineum, around the nipples, across the balls, or up and down the shaft of a penis," she says. With that being said, if a toy is made specifically for external use, don't try to insert it in any of your or your partner's orifices — that could potentially lead to injury and a mood-killing trip to the hospital. The point of a sex toy might be to experience something completely different than what you can do on your own, and that’s cool too. But if you’re feeling overwhelmed when it comes to technique and you already know other forms of masturbation you enjoy, it can be helpful to start there. “Think about how you masturbate without a toy,” says Howard. What kind of stimulation do you like? Internal or external, gentle or firm, fast or slow...you get the idea. “From there, you can kind of gauge what you’re going to enjoy from a sex toy.”