Asking for a Spanking

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When you ask for the spanking, you obviously knew she would do it bare bottom, but were you expecting her to use a belt?

A formidable no nonsense women. Her standing in the community was the fuel that drove her on. At Christmas she probably had to do without, to provide a lovely Christmas for her daughter. She was the woman you went to to get something done, Tombolas, Raffles, Carol Concerts to name a few. In short, she was a very much loved and respected member of the village community. I'm posting this because I need advice on how to go about it. When I tried with two exes in the past, it was awkward because I kept stumbling over my words and couldn't stop saying "I'm sorry, I'm a freak/you'll hate me". I had no clue how to properly ask to be spanked, and I still don't, but this is very important to me.The fascination is strange. I had cousins who were spanked like that and I thought it was a lie because my parents never did that. How embarrassing!-I thought. I had been spanked over my pants but never bare; I couldn't even imagine it. My aunt was a bossy woman and ran that house so I could see her administering a spanking but I somehow thought that I was immune from her because I wasn't her kid. It was then that she at last stopped to somewhat glare dawn at me. My eyes widened in fear, and I swear I could feel my heart pounding in my ears. "Susie..." She started coolly.

I told her I wanted to know what it felt like and that I felt like a naughty boy just asking her to spank me.My mother then stopped, put her hairbrush down and let go of my right arm. I was allowed to compose myself for a minute over her knees and was then told to get up and go and stand in the corner with my hands on my head. The closest that I ever "volunteered" for a spanking was at the end of elementary school that was more of a dare and weird fun. A couple of times when faced with the choice of my mom grounding me or giving me a spanking in my teens, I asked her to spank me. She grounded me instead, which by the way is what I really preferred. I would rather have been grounded than to have had to pull down my pants and get my bare butt spanked when I was in my teens. As to the belt, that was normal from age 10 on. I got spanked with an open hand or hairbrush before 10. Mummy sat on the bed, and slid the slipper deftly under the pillow. Then turned a nervous, worried Karen to face her. “I told you quite plainly Karen, that if you were naughty at school, you would be punished at home.” As she did this she tugged the pyjama bottoms down, to land in a puddle at her daughters ankles.

I decide how long and hard you will be spanked young man, without exceptionel and you better be sure this is what you want. My brothers and I were subject to spanking as long as we lived at home. My older brother figured out that the spankings didn't bother me as much as they did him, so he would agree to drive my friends and me around if I took blame for something he did and take the spanking for him. This only worked if I could pass it off as something I did. If he got in trouble at school there was nothing I could do. HUGE update (01/31/2018): Great news! Everything went great! I was able to talk to my friend about this, and he was 100% cool with it and is willing to help me! We had a little trial run spanking yesterday, and though it wasn't much, it did help a little! He's also trying to help me find some good coping methods to use when he's not around since we don't exactly live close to each other. And again, thank you all so much for your advice!

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The girls are grounded for the rest of today, and probably tomorrow. Meaning they can't have any friends over." In Karen’s case Mummy simply said, “I have signed it, and returned it already. Let me say this just once Karen. If you are ever punished at school, you will be punished again at home, understood?” I had been paddled on occasion in elementary school and junior high, the last once in 11th grade. Teachers in elementary and jr high had the authority to paddle a student herself or send us to the principal's office. It was then after that the paddle could be signed by the kid. Was it the fact that friends had been spanked & talked about it that prompted you at 8 to ask John to spank you?