Enforced Male Chastity: His ebony girlfriend makes him beg for release! (Caged by his Ebony Girlfriend Book 1)

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I’m not saying that we don’t do other things. We adopted a female lead relationship with discipline (F L R D). In that context I must obey Mrs. lion and I get punished if I break a rule. We’ve both written quite a bit about this. But, make no mistake, that stuff has nothing at all to do with my male chastity. And let's sidestep the idea of 'self enforced' for now, as that strictly speaking isn't enforced or at least to the same degree. We'll keep it on point in discussing enforced chastity with a keyholder. The condom is then removed and weighed on the gram scale, discounting for the weight of the condom. Corporal punishment is then applied to his bottom in direct proportion to any deficiency in the required weight of his load on a scale as determined by the Mistress. The 1/10 gram scale increments provide a good granularity which to determine the severity of any chastity rule violation.

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Length of the device and the part of the device that encloses that actual shaft is far less imporant than the size of what’s referred to as the base ring. Taking on length first, get a device that’s too short. Unless you really are dealing with a micro penis don’t go crazy for the first try but in no way do you need to worry about a device where the shaft is an inch or more too short. In fact that’s what you want. If you don’t go with one that’s too short it will be unwieldy, add unnecessary weight and ultimately will be less suited to all-day every-day wear. With the easy part out of the way obviously it will take a bit to move to a device that’s really short, like an inch max, more on that another day. Remember, in terms of your power as keyholder, time is on your side. It may take a year to get it through his head, but your male will learn that he really needs sex and anything he does to make you extend his waits is just not worth the bad behavior. A sensual story sharing a lesbian woman’s hesitant introduction to chastity. Overcoming sexual dysfunction and exploring the cultivation of desire through denial and submission. Some women enjoy playing chastity games with their men, without his agreeing to give them the final say. This is fine for some, but not for a truly female led relationship. To experience the real benefits of chastity, he must agree to give you full control. If your man truly cares more for your happiness than his own, he should be glad for the opportunity to prove his devotion and love to you. You should probably consider taking a serious reappraisal of a man who would rather have selfish orgasms than put you first and become a better person under your leadership. If you want him to take pleasing you seriously, chastity release has to be entirely your decision.Once your man has become a bit used to chastity, and perhaps even to his regular schedule of releases, it is a good idea to take them away on a whim, either here and there or even as often as you like. It helps to keep firm in your man's mind that chastity and release aren't about simple reward and punishment. Chastity is about giving you everything that you want, sacrificing simply for your happiness, and putting you in the driver seat of every aspect of your relationship that you choose. Release dates are only guide posts, you are the leader. A healthy male’s full load’ ejaculation, after having abstained from release for a fixed period up to a full week, can be expected to weigh between 4 to 7 grams depending on age and sexual health. However, if he has released more recently, the specimen he produces for his Fidelity test will weigh considerably less. This can be light in direct correlation to the time since his last release and the number of times he has released. Because of a male’s refractory period, his sex parts require time to replenish his semen after each and every ejaculation – and thus, a light load is an absolute indicator of at least one recent ejaculation. This indicator is good all the way up to his maximum production. Compulsive, or multiple ejaculations will reduce his production dramatically. This is an excellent post Emma, it’s taken us nearly a year from when I first mentioned chastity to H and bought our first cage (cb6000s) it’s certainly not been easy, but I’d have to say this blog has been our go to source for help and guidance.

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This isn’t true of the women. They have been trained to get sexual satisfaction by arousing their husbands or by masturbating. The men expect their wives to be aroused and give them sex when they are horny. It’s a subtle-but-important difference. Male sexual arousal is easy to detect. Our penises display our arousal. Women have much more subtle signals of heat. There are cases when chastity cages may not be feasible as a means to effectively control male ejaculatory activity while the Mistress is away. In those cases, I have developed and employ an alternative method of male chastity enforcement. This method has proven to be most effective at curtailing unauthorized ejaculations. Properly employed, male chastity enforcement is especially effective when the male is away from his Mistress for a period of time. For example, when he must be away on business trips or where the relationship is a session-based liaison.For simplistiy I’ll break it down into three distinct phases even though shades of those three phases and some overlap occur. Phase one should have been predictable but it wasn’t for me. Pardon the cliche but it fits — Phase one is the honeymoon phase. While I was busy as a bee trying to figure out how to actually make a male chastity device “work” for the better part of two months really wasn’t a phase. It became quite pedestrian in pursuit of a goal — to get this done and over, maybe even to teach hubby a lesson. Sure hubby was excited but not nearly as much as I would have guessed and after the on/off trial/error part was established it became a bit routine for him as well. I guess that happened because we both “knew” this was just testing and getting a device that worked and actually enforced chastity for real on my terms and also making sure he and his body got used to it. Phase One There's a first time for everything. The chastity slave in this story attends a private play party for his Mistress and gets a very big surprise; his first experience of forced bi play. The passing of physical and mental control is a stimulation like no other in this dynamic, shifting from 'chastity game' to something more serious, possibly over months or even years. And it's that forfeit of control that is just so alluring about it isn't it? This isn't necessarily a one or two week agreement so whilst a trust in a key holder is always massively important, one cannot overstate just how important it is when you are going to give up control to this degree. Like a chastity 'game' there is the potential to set rules first however a popular alternative in this arrangement is the complete relinquishing of control to the keyholder.

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This story is written at the time when social distancing restrictions were put in place during the Covid-19 pandemic. The restrictions are finally lifted and the chastity slave finally gets to meet with Mistress Terra for a private play session, or so he thought. He takes a good beating before being used for the latex clad goddess's pleasure.It may seem cruel, but a key component of enforced chastity is to keep your caged male in a continuous state of heat. Every day without an orgasm should feel like it is lasting forever and he should grow more and more desperate for release. That, after all, is the real core of all those chastity fantasies. The way to do this is through regular non-orgasmic teasing. Some of these stories are completely fictional and figments of our collective filthy imaginations. Others are direct accounts of our private play sessions. We'll leave it up to you to figure out which ones are fantasy and which ones really happened. The Fidelity Test Protocol (FTP) is a ritualized and formal process. It was designed as a compliance tool for male chastity enforcement. It requires only a condom and a small gram-scale, capable of 1/10th gram resolution. Such scales are easily available and quite inexpensive. The Fidelity Test is announced randomly by the Mistress after a required period of ejaculatory abstention. The male is then stimulated and put in the condom and brought to release in a manner that encourages the production of the largest ejaculatory load he can muster. Now for the bad news/good news. I’ve been through just about all of the widely available male chastity devices on my “mission” to resolve this hubby fantasy. There’s only two kinds that will actually work and both of them are going to seem extreme. The first kind will involve a penis piercing of one type or another. I don’t recommend this to start unless it’s already a done deal. I personally am just thinking about possibly getting hubby’s junk pierced a certain way so that I can install a very specific custom made chastity device that looks like it will be easy or zero maintenance. I’ve still not decided and probably won’t for quite a while as the device is expensive and the piercing is specific. Okay so what’s the other kind. Well get ready for it, sit down. The only other male chastity device that actually works — as in enforces chastity and will not come off is one with a stiff steel/metal urethral tube that extends at least inside (preferably behind) the ring when everything is assembled and in place. Yes it sounds and looks extreme. Turns out it’s really not. There’s a couple of days getting used to the feeling on your males partner’s part. He will have to really get used to taking a pee a couple of times but pretty much smooth sailing after that. As an added bonus it actually seems to reduce hubby’s willingness and ability to push against the chastity device when installed. I noticed this the very first day I finally went that direction. This was the answer and the first device I chose lasted almost a year once I got the ring size right. Hubby’s now in a a chastity device that’s shorter (about an inch maybe a little tiny bit more from the tip of it to the ring when assembled, it also has a strait steel urethral tube that’s about 2 inches, maybe a little more.) Enforced male chastity began as a corrective of masculine misbehavior. Mistress Owners dole out orgasms as rewards. For being satisfactory servants, men earned brief release from their MCDs (Male Chastity Devices).